Personality over looks

In the fantastic words of Emma Thomson

"don't waste your time, don't waste your life's purpose worrying about your body. It is your vessel, it's your house, it's where you live. There's no point in judging it."

This is something I've wanted to do for sometime! I really struggle with my body image and being kind to myself and so if there's anyone else out there like me this is for you!

Whenever you're worried or upset about the way you look just think to yourself - do you want to spend time with any of your friends because of the way they look? No of course not it's the way they make you feel! They could be the most beautiful person but if they don't make you feel good or aren't nice you wouldn't want to be around them! So remember that next time you're worried about how you look and considering not going to something!

All bodies are different - health isn't one size and our bodies change but they also do a lot of things for us and what's more important is the way you treat people and the way you make them feel!

For a long time I didn't want to meet anyone in person through my Instagram page because I'd put on so much weight in the pandemic and I was embarrassed of myself! And you know what the only person I hurt by doing that was me I've now met so many amazing people through my page and they don't care what I look like or what size I'm wearing!

So remember this and remember most people are focussed on themselves and their insecurities so wear the bikini, go and meet someone new and just don't miss out on life because you think you're too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, whatever! It's really is your personality that counts!